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Can a guy change his perception of you if you decline sex with him?

This guy I was kinda talking to for 3 weeks just recently asked me if I'd like to be his fwb (friends with benefits). We also had two arguments. The first being that I told him not to mess with my feelings and the other was rumors at school that he had a girlfriend (which he still denies). We're ok now, but I think the sparks aren't as strong anymore. Then he texted me saying that he's not looking for a girlfriend right now and doesn't want to waste my time when he asked me if I'd like to be his fwb. I told him I don't do casual sex and wanted to stay platonic friends with him. I was hoping that we'd get to know each other to where we could have a relationship. Do you think he'll think better of me now that I told him I won't sleep with him casually? We've never been intimate. The only thing we did was give each other a hug when we'd say hello or goodbye. Thanks!

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  • hace 4 años
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    this sounds similar to something that happened to me. i had a casual thing with a guy that didn't want a gf. one day he came round to my house (condom and all) and i said i didn't wanna have sex with him, we did other stuff but not sex and that was the last day i ever heard from him. coincidence? i don't think so. i hope your guy is more decent than the one i was with but just be careful and stick to your beliefs, don't be pressured into anything

  • Anónimo
    hace 4 años
  • lee
    Lv 6
    hace 4 años

    Wtf , are you crazy , you have morels , but he gets to sleep around , and you still want to see if you can have a " relationship in time " have fun with std's

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